Men are fascinated by their cocks, that’s something we all have in common. When showering after the gym or swimming, or even when having a piss in a public toilet we all have a little peep.
Even though there may not be any desire for actual contact it’s as if the mind has taken a photo of that “erotic image” and can flash back to have another look at any time. We may wonder about what type of sex the owner of the “image” enjoys. We may get sexually aroused thinking about him shagging his wife. That doesn’t mean we want to have a gay relationship with him, even though just before you “cumm” you think about putting his cock in your mouth. I was always of the assumption that every-one was bisexual. Acknowledge all parts of your sexuality, even the tiny parts. It’s part of what makes you, you. If you do not it will damage you. I once had a very old man come to see me.
A few months short of his 90th. birthday. He was not going to see that day, he was not well. He had seen a small “ad” of mine for massage in a local newspaper. He had gone through his life always desiring men but had never had the courage to do anything about it.