my sexual life with my wife

Hello, I’m a happily married man. I define myself as Bi and I had my share or gay sex. It all started to fulfill my curiosity but then I discovered who really I am. I start by playing the top role till I decided I wanted to try and experiment how it feels to have a hard stiff cock up my arse. Thankfully the guy I […]

54 year old male

I am a well put together 54 year old male. I am very comfortable considering myself gay, and I live an “out” life, but most often new acquaintances who are not gay, or who aren’t thinking that way, are surprised when I make it clear that I am not…”straight”…if we need to use these labels…etc…I have a strong sense of order, and facility to make things […]

Cock Virtues : Kindness, Righteousness, Courteousness, Wisdom & Honesty

In ancient taoist teaching your cock is your god symbol, representing complete male and complete giving. It was taught that your cock had 5 virtues. Kindness : As a sacred tool, it keeps giving and giving. Righteousness : It’s not selfish. it’s only aim is to please. Courteousness : It is polite, it goes where you want. Wisdom : It has the wisdom to satisfy Honesty : It will […]

the mysteries hidden by trousers

In the bath-house, the mysteries hidden by trousersAre revealed to you.All becomes radiantly manifest.Feast your eyes without restraint! You see handsome buttocks, shapely trim torsos,You hear the guys whispering pious formulasto one another(‘God is Great! ‘ ‘Praise be to God! ‘)Ah, what a palace of pleasure is the bath-house!Even when the towel-bearers come inAnd spoil the fun a bit. Abū Nuwās al-Ḥasan ibn Hānī al-Ḥakamī (756–814),aka […]

44 married and bi curious

Dear Seb, I have looked through your web site and perhaps you can help me. I am 44 married and bi curious. Have met a guy same age and we meet regularly to wank and play with each others cocks but no sucking. I want to be fucked up the arse for the first time by him and he has agreed. His cock is slightly large […]

str8 @ 48 ?

Hi, Mr Cox, before I read your blog I thought I was straight, but now I’m not so sure as I really do want to stroke and suck the cocks pictured. Trouble is I’m too afraid to set up a meeting with a  dude. Also I’m married and don’t want to fuck myself up with guilt. Not much anyone can do I guess, but if you […]

I wonder how men feel about having their cocks touched by a friend?

I have a friend and have been considering what he’d think if I was to reach out and very gently touched this clothed penis. Would he consider it a major breach of male etiquette, or would it be something that he’d like to explore further? I have no clue as to the size of the penis I’m curious about. He doesn’t dress suggestively. His clothing isn’t […]

just seeing another mans cock

I have always thought about just actually really seeing another mans cock, but in just my dreams and books, never have in real life, always wanted to touch another cock and see how it would feel and maybe get to suck on one. But this dream has been going on for 10 years now, and still no luck, all web sites to find someone in my […]

Did the ancient Celts Really Invent Gay Tantra?

Celtic Tantra – 1st century BC, The origins of Gay Tantra ‘Despite the fact that their wives are very beautifal, the Celts have very little to do with them, but instead abandon themselves to a strange passion for other men. They usually sleep on the ground on skins of wild animals and tumble about with a bedfellow on either side. And what is strangest of all is that, without any […]

smoking weed

Hi Seb, I don’t know if this is a “worthy” subject for this forum, but, here goes… I have found that since smoking more weed I cum more intensely than ever before. I can also put it off longer and feel amazing sensations on my cock. My cock is about 8 inches cut and of average circumference. I can wank for hours it seems and I […]

My best buds dick

My girlfriend will jerk me off while she sucks my best buds dick. he is hung 9 and im 4.7.3. usually this will lead him to go down on her so then while he is busy servicing her cunt with his expert tongue.(trust me he knows what he is doing) ill be down on him. i tend to suck him while i fuck her to. he […]