Hi Seb, Just wanted to drop a note. I came across your site one day while surfing bored at work. It was bookmarked immediately and I have revisited many times since. I enjoy the various sections. I love the masculine manner you approach the issue of male sexuality and the sexuality that exists between men, gay or str8. You seem to deal with male sexual hunger in a confident and mature fashion. It has always been my argument that everyone, men and women, should have sex with members of both sexes–preference aside–if for nothing else to experience a different type of body, a different type of pleasure. I’m jealous. I’d like to be as confident and able as yourself. I’m 32 and going through a sexual awakening. Sex up until now has been mostly in response to someone else´s desires…reactionary. I want to sort this, be more confident and defining in my wants and desires. I want to learn to be fucked, to receive. The only time I have enjoyed anal sex is when I have been high on coke or X, and boy did I LOVE it, but only when high, and that has been only 4 times in 12 years of gay sex. Would or could you teach me? I have a fantasy of being pounded, big cock, or cocks, mouth, ass, whereever. Not so original I know, but its what I’d like. I visit your site often, as I said before, and often times I become so horny I have to go for a wank in the office toilet.