I’m a bit of an amateur sociologist, I like to study different cultures that I might interact with, and this hobby doesn’t stop when I am getting a random blowjob at a park, glory hole, video booth, or app hookup. Part of what still gets my jaded-self off, is watching the service provider selflessly throat, fist, and slurp on my cock and balls with a desirous hunger and greed. I am deeply aroused by someone who has a craving for cock and/or cum, and anticipate with wonder if this guy will swallow, spit, take a facial, or completely avoid the cum geyser he is causing. I politely give a 6 second warning so they can be prepared and I would say that 70% of men swallow all of my cum and keep sucking. Another 20% take my load in their mouth and spit it out, and 10% pull off with maybe only 3% of those asking me to cum on their face (and those who want the facial always have beards).

I usually give an exit interview as I am wiping spit and cum remnants off of my spent dick, and I will ask;

“Did you like that load?”

“Was it sweet?” (I know the answer, I eat my own often)

“Do you suck cock to get the load, or do you suck cock because you like to suck cock?”

And with the last question, I find that all men stop and pause because no one ever asks that question and they have to think about their motivation, and about 75% say that they do it for the cum. They like eating cum, they enjoy the feeling of it shooting on their mouth and get a rush as they savor and swallow it. The other 25 say something to the affect that they like making a man feel good, or they like being used by a man, or they like feeling a hard cock pounding their mouth and head – these men enjoy the power it gives them to make a man cum. People are fascinating and I am thankful for these men, whatever their motivations are.

Thank you for sharing this. I have often wondered why some men enjoy sucking. This helps. Maybe it can’t be explained. I liked to invite others to share what is about sucking the before, during & after that they like. Also regarding the cum, yes / no in the mouth, like the taste, swallow or spit? Does size matter.


I enjoy it all. The anticipation and reveal as a man takes it out. The musky odor. Licking the shaft and balls. Having it in my mouth and down my throat. Responding to his wants and needs, and adjusting my service for his pleasure. When he cums, I see it as my reward for a job well done. I’ll take it however he wants to give it — right down my throat while he holds my head tight against his crotch, into my open mouth so I can savor the taste, or all over my face and beard where I can wear it and enjoy the scent as it drips down.


19 thoughts on “Amateur Sociologists

  1. I try to take my cues from the man I am sucking. Is he in need of cummming right now, does he want just to enjoy the feeling of my mouth and throat around his cock? Is he watching me suck his cock? Do I see the man changing as I suck him… does he start to look more animal, more aggressive, am I bringing out the animal fucker in his animal mind? Does he want to abuse me, lord it over me, tease me? Does he like to hear me whimper for his cock. beg for it, if only by opening my mouth as he pulls away. Does he enjoy the choking and gagging sound my mouth and throat make as I worship his cock? Sometimes they say filthy things about being a faggot cocksucker, and how I am a whore for cock. They tell me to say “I love Cock” while their fat dick is stuffed into my throat and then laugh at me as I struggle to obey him. I love having a facial, but I know many men enjoy the feeling of the complete orgasm down my throat so as to maximize the feeling. It’s up to the man as to how and where he ejaculates. If he pulls out and strokes it, I know I’m in for a treat taking his load all over my face and beard so I can taste it the rest of the day. If he wants to piss in my mouth or all over me at this point, that would be heven.

    1. I try to do the same Scott. However, I won’t do any gagging. I can deep throat but won’t gag doing it. I can take some pretty big cockcs and have. I’ll take as long as he wants. Never rushing him to cum. I’m told I’m really good. Gentle, smooth, take my time caressing and licking and sucking his balls, the head gets special attention. They will usually tell me what they like. But you can shoot your load down my throat (which I prefer as I love to swallow) or anywhere but my face. I don’t enjoy that at all. I like to be in control, take my time, enjoy his scent, taste, the feel of his hard cock in my mouth. But I won’t do any agressive, face fucking. It may be enjoyable to him, but definitely not me. I will do my best to pleasure his cock, but I do have limitations. I just love sucking a nice cock, so I’m pretty flexible. Most men have said they can tell how much I love it. One man was watching me suck this man’s cock and said, “Now that’s how you suck a cock, I’m next.” And he was, lol

  2. I love to suck and to feel the cock throb againt my tongue when it shoots its load. However, I do not swallow unless I know the guy well. I just spit it out and let it drizzle all over my beard.

  3. Very interesting sociology and the picture of a clerical cocksucker is so arousing

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