hello Mr Cox, I think being bisexual can often be quite a lonely journey.  That is the sad, sad, truth. Even though I have a fantastic wife, she can never fully understand me, though she tries her best. I love her more than words can say. Crazy as it sounds, Every time I read that website “cumm.co.uk“, I can feel it.

Being bisexual, nothing like being wrapped in the big strong arms of a Man who doesn’t question or judge, just understands and gives willingly of himself. Sometimes, often really, I think that it can be more intimate than any sexual act. I’ve been working off and on for the past year or so on “my story”. Far more of it is about confusion, pain, and loneliness than anything else. As cliche as it sounds, it really is a journey of self-discovery. I feel that slowly but surely I am figuring out who I am, what I really need, and how to best mesh that with what my loved ones (and life in general), need from me. For the longest time I thought I was walking a tightrope trying to accomplish this, and only recently realised it’s ME that made it a tightrope, and it’s only ME that can widen it, turn it into a path, a road, a highway. I’ll get there! It won’t be easy, but I Will Never Give Up.

If a man enjoys both men and women he is by nature bisexual bi/ Jay

one main reason why I do not love this site is because your assuming someone is gay or straight by what they tell you. If a man enjoys both men and women he is by nature is bisexual . Anyway you slice it, the definition means what it means. No one is going around arguing about how an oak tree should be called something else so why change a simple term that means something very specific. homosexual means you like the same sex, hetero means you like the opposite, and bi means both, its very black and white. I myself could never physically be with a woman, because I am what you would call a homosexual, I also know men who have tried with other men and it didn’t work, that would be heterosexuality, and there are reasons for it lol. I just think that its a bit uneducated to say ” well, im gay but I like to have a go at it with women every now and then” or ” well im a str8 man who likes men on the weekends” when you do it is your own choice, how much you do it is your own choice, but the fact that you do it at all is your desire and that is a part of your sexuality, as much as that might bother some people. the main reason men go and have sex with other men and then say they are straight is because first of all….we buy it and support it, and second, because anything else but the bi or gay label sounds better to them, its their way of escaping the word because they think it means something negative and they don’t want to deal with the burdens and adversity that come along with it. in other words…they are scared of what it means to be a bisexual man. I am only offended because too many people are slapping labels on themselves that do not fit and its like a white guy in 10th grade walking around acting like he is black or like he invented hip hop culture. I can say I am asian till I am blue in the face, but it will never change the fact that I am italian. lol peace. JAY!

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  1. I respect Jay’s point of view in as far as he defines it. As a gay man who never fancies women he clearly has it sorted. Black and white as he says. But for me, I deal with it every day. My neck has constant whiplash from rubber-necking at every attractive jogger in the park – Hot girls seem to be as common as hot men for me. I make eye contact with the men and find some looking back. I feel like a dirty old man to make eye contact with the women. My actual sexual desire rises and falls towards women and men at different times. All I know is that I am generally Hornier the older I get. I wank to both types of porn. I have great sex with my wife but not nearly enough is on offer. I have refrained from cheating on her with women because that seems lacking in gallantry. And she is HOT…. I love her and have had discussions about not wanting a platonic marriage. The sex frequency and quality improves for a while then slips back and my eyes wander again. So every now and then I have a quiet wank with a bloke or book a massage. I’ve tried going further but found that each time I do, the reality less attractive than the fantasy – which seems clear to me to now know the boundary of my attractions. It’s mostly a fetish with dick and nuts and a sacred bonding between brothers that I just really enjoy and value alongside my marriage. Others may have a different view. But within the limits Of what I found workS for me, this makes sense. If I wasn’t married, I would definitely do different things. But I am and I like being married to this woman. Does she know? No. Or at least we never speak of it. I am not afraid of identifying as something else. I am simply aware that Gay men seem impatient with us bi guys because they assume we are simply “in transition” or “in denial”. But equally, very few women will share their man with another set of blokes. Bi is a lonely place that neither gay men nor women like or permit you to be.

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