Your Sexual Self

These spiritual window-shoppers, who idly ask, ‘How much is that?’ ‘Oh, I’m just looking.’ They handle a hundred items and put them down, shadows with no capital. What is spent is love and […]

Support Our Site

Online since 1996, the site is intended as a non judgemental celebration of the Art of HaPenis. It was the first cock is sacred blog on the net. Since then the site has […]

The Cock Lover I Am

I had a hard time accepting my homosexuality. I married a woman twenty years ago. At the time I thought I was bisexual, although she didn’t know it. But over the past 5 […]

A Zen Riddle?

Homosexuality has been like a Zen riddle. The riddle was: How do I deal with my homosexuality? Do I accept it or reject it or freak out, or do I go into it […]

Dark Light

The dark and the light, they exist side by side. Sometimes overlapping, one explaining the other. The darkened path is as illuminated as the lightened. Raven Davies

Men & Trees

When you go out into the woods and you look at trees, you see all these different trees. And some of them are bent, and some of them are straight, and some of […]

aka God Tantra

God has created many of us as gay, and all that God creates is beautiful. I would suggest you first come to accept that within yourself. Give yourself time. I would suggest that […]

Richard’s 1st

I had never before been intimate with any man: in fact, only a select number of women had ever seen me fully unclothed, and yet a visit to an all male naturist  spa […]

The Platonic Blow

The Platonic Blow, (sometimes known as “A Day for a Lay” or “The Gobble Poem“) is an erotic poem by W. H. Auden. Thought to have been written in 1948, the poem gleefully describes […]

Wonking & Winking

I like to wonk my manhood slowly and gently using some sort of oil. I like to wink at my manhood as it glistens. I love the feel of the lubrication on my […]

HaPenis Controlled

Love to be naked with another man and have him masturbate and edge my penis without my control. Bring me to the edge of orgasm over and over without letting me ejaculate. Looking […]

Mr Othul Xhosa

Hi, I am writing this from a very rural village in South Africa, I am really the only gay in this village. I am 31 years old, black, Xhosa. Tall, athletic build and […]

What Do Souls Do?

Souls love. That’s what souls do. Egos don’t, but souls do. Become a soul, look around, and you’ll be amazed-all the beings around you are souls. Be one, see one. When many people […]

And let it breathe…

Awake, my dear. Be kind to your sleeping heart. Take it out into the vast fields of Light And let it breathe. HaFeZ

Soft Cock Revolution

As men we are programmed to believe that the best way to enjoy our cock is when it’s erect. In that process we miss out on so much pleasure that or cocks are […]

TantricK Cock Massage

The most important advice I can give to any-one who wants to give an amazing tantric cock massage is that the secret is in your intention. Your intention should be to celebrate the […]