Mystical Communion

Getting older (early fifties) has not meant that the experience of sexuality, passion and desire has dissipated and petered out. On the contrary, advancing age has brought unexpected insights and surprises; new personal […]

Sexual Desires

Hello from reading your site it seems clear to me that sex has more to do with energy and desire than sexual orientation. From school we are taught not to much about sex […]

Trust Truth Respect

To me, “touch” is not just putting your hands on someone’s body, but also, to touch them with your eyes by examining every inch of their body, with your ears by listening to […]

Most Important

The Most Important Part of Life is Sex. I believe that to fully realise one’s sexuality a sexually enhanced male must both fuck and be fucked. To give and to receive sexually is […]

HaPenis Men

The primary comment by Amit, that begins this post, is not radical or groundbreaking but it is astounding because I feel it’s so normal. I am single in my early 50s having raised […]

My Sexual Energy

I like to connect with myself, my sexual energy is my inner personality. I enjoy exploring my male sexual identity and connecting spiritually with other males as we share that same sexual identity. […]

Heteroplatonic

Thanks, your article is a revelation to me. I have long known intuitively sexuality is far more complex than just the straight-gay-bi continuum which is why I have always been unable to define […]

The Prussian Butch

Homosexuality is a condition, and like all average things, it has advantages and disadvantages. Obvious disadvantages are that it keeps you from reproducing your own image, if that’s biologically important anymore; and it […]

Only Kisses

“There is some kiss we want with our whole lives, the touch of spirit on the body. Seawater begs the pearl to break its shell. and the lily, how passionately it needs some […]

A Deep Desire for Masculine Intimacy

I love this site which I accidentally discovered a year ago whilst searching for an alternative to porn sites/dating sites/sites about the scene, none of which satisfy the deep desire and longing I […]

I Knew I Was

I always struggled to understand my sexuality but I knew I was bisexual from a young age. I wished I could be a women and a man. I strongly desire women and their […]

Sexual Identity?

“Society is so hypocritical and limiting. The fact that one calls oneself “straight” or whatever doesn’t reveal anything about one’s true fantasies or desires. It’s not that people can truly know every aspect […]

Nuts!

Eating 60g of walnuts, hazelnuts and almonds each day could increase sexual desire and give men better orgasms. Spanish researchers claim men reported having a better sex life with the addition of two […]

Thank God for making you special

 Being gay is a blessing. God has created many of us as gay, and all that God creates is beautiful. I would suggest you first come to accept that within yourself. Give yourself time. […]

Perpendicular Desire

“It doesn’t matter if I’m off the beat. It doesn’t matter if I’m snapping to the rhythm. It doesn’t matter if I look like a complete goon when I dance. It is my […]

Sexy Transmutation

Here at CUMM UK we have being featuring Mr Sex Transmutation’s video for years. Every time we stumble back to this post we are hypnotised by not only his godliness but also his […]

No Lips Below the Hips

Real divinity cannot be separated from real physicality. Marco Del Rey explains as I don’t believe there is such a thing as an eternal soul separate from the body then divinity and sexuality […]