I am a straight (maybe Bi) male and I have watched gay porn on more than one occasion. I have masturbated to it before too. Let me start by saying I enjoy having sex with women, a lot. I’ve never had sex with a guy, but would be open to the idea. I’ve used toys before too and know that it feels good. Beyond curiosity and that it is arousing, I don’t know of any other reason to watch gay porn… You can’t help what turns you on sexually, so you might as well except it and explore yourself. I just tend to find a lot of gay porn is relevant to my interests in a way that some straight porn isn’t. I don’t like watching sloppy, gaggy blow jobs and on the whole gay porn has much cleaner bjs at least from what I’ve seen. It’s about 70/30 straight to gay watching. I don’t like twinks or super swole dudes. I generally watch college vids, hazing type deals, straight for pay, nothing with kissing/caressing. Just the sex please. I’ve never had any inclination for a male outside of gay porn, I like many other guys here were totally grossed out by it and it became this taboo in my mind and then I decided to just watch one and saw that it really wasn’t so bad. I’m sort of a voyeur in that regard and just like watching gay, straight, trans, whatever. On rare occasion, I watch gay porn because my dick tells me that’s what I want to be watching. I’m not gay, I just sometimes get this urge that says “watch a man rail another dude in the ass.” Ian

I’m not gay, I just sometimes get this urge that says “watch a man rail another dude in the ass”. The truth is, and this is for all of you gentlemen: you want to be gay, but you are hiding behind the façade of “I like watching it, but I am not” – no one is forcing you to enjoy another man, no one is telling you to become a “gay icon” but if you like gay pornography and enjoy the occasional “gay experience” – then you are a Gay Man… or maybe you believe you are straight, but every now and then you want to taste what a true Gay Man knows the taste of… cock, armpits, ass, lips,… all the body parts that men possess.

Here’s a newsflash

The older you become, the more you will want that Gay experience that becomes less, and less available. I am an older “Gay Man” – 78, to be precise, and although my gay life has been nil for some years due to many unforeseen health and personal issues, the desire has become greater and greater… and it will never be fulfilled. So you tepid Gay Men who will not self-identify yourself as Gay, as the years pass you too will feel the desire grow and grow within you… and you will feel a sense of loss for what you could have had, but you never will. Thank you, Seb!

Richard Anthony

Richard Anthony, I am respectfully going to disagree with your broad brush painting. There are many reasons men have sex with other men – this is not a news bulletin. Consider horny teen horseplay, consider prison sex, considering the lonely soul who may be inept with women. That’s an essay in itself. But watching gay porn and then exploring sex with men is a real and new phenomenon, particularly with the young generation. They have been conditioned to be open minded, non- judgmental and liberal in their views of homosexuality. Many were raised by the first wave of accepting heterosexuals so even within their homes, they were taught that gay is okay. Gay liberation worked. The biggest proponent of this acceptance has been the internet. If you are a straight porn aficionado, you will know that for decades now, two guys in one girl is a common thing DP – double penetration. Two straight men rubbing cocks inside a slick twat.. “straight “ but BOOM! the first wall comes down with cock on cock frottage. From there, its an easy click to see two guys and a girl in full bisexual porn. Two bros fucking a moaning chick and she squeals- “ I want you to suck his cock!” And BOOM! another wall collapses. And from there, its a slippery slope down to some guy on guy only action. So you have young men at the peak of their sexual prowess, conditioned to be okay with swapping head with your bro. Without the societal impact of ubiquitous internet porn in all kinds of scenarios, these men would never consider having gay sex. And alternatively, young women would never think that a guy should choke and smack them while fucking them. But these kids grow up watching this warped perspective of what normal sex is and now anything goes. So yes, some men can let a guy suck their dick and not be gay.

As for your warning of age related bitter regret- you are absolutely correct. But I who have had sex with hundreds of men, find myself sad and wistful for my youth, my good looks, my 20/20 eyesight, hyper-reactive plumbing and everything else that has diminished with time. It still wasn’t enough.

Joe

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  1. I am older too….and wish I knew back when I had my young body what I know now. Richard’s thoughts speak to me. I would love to be naked with him.

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