I am a man who considers myself to be essentially 100% str8 butt
I am a man who considers myself to be essentially 100% str8 but I have slept with lots of men and have recently been seeing a man in a full-blown relationship. When I say I am str8 I mean that I am not physically attracted to men at all. However I am ‘sexually’ attracted to men. I dumped my last girlfriend (I have usually had two relationships at once – with a man and a woman) because my male lover satisfied me more. I am openly ‘bi-sexual’ but no one understands if I tell them I’m str8 but sometimes prefer gay sex. For me being adventurous and having relaxed fun with sex is more important than someone’s gender. I will look back here in a short while to see if anyone has identified with this. Thanks for the article.
I get you, man …
Guys should worry less about what they are and more about who they are with and making it a good experience right then, and not stress on what it “means.” What good sex means is that you are able to enjoy a connection with another person, and the physical equipment of the bodies involved, well, so? I wish I could have sex with a woman now and then but I have sex with guys, and I am not willing to lie to a woman (or anyone) to get them to have sex, and virtually all women will stop cold on learning you have sex with men. Does it mean I am less gay that I would like to have sex with women now and then? Does it make a guy less straight if he would like to have sex with a guy now and then? Maybe maybe not, I think it depends on your definitions of gay and straight, and as far as I am concerned I just am over that issue. I do what any real man does and that is I have the sex I want to have. What others think about my sex, well, that is no concern of mine. David
Gender Doesn’t Bother Me
Hey man i know i can relate in the opposite sense, im commonly referred to as gay cause i guess sometimes i can act that way. But gender doesn’t bother me when it comes to sexual activity. Guys sometimes turn me on but I have never tried with a girl so have no idea what one is capable of in the bedroom…Will