I am a man who considers myself to be essentially 100% str8 but I have slept with lots of men and have recently been seeing a man in a full-blown relationship. When I say I am str8 I mean that I am not physically attracted to men at all. However I am ‘sexually’ attracted to men. I dumped my last girlfriend (I have usually had two relationships at once – with a man and a woman) because my male lover satisfied me more. I am openly ‘bi-sexual’ but no one understands if I tell them I’m str8 but sometimes prefer gay sex. For me being adventurous and having relaxed fun with sex is more important than someone’s gender. I will look back here in a short while to see if anyone has identified with this. Thanks for the article.
Guys should worry less about what they are and more about who they are with and making it a good experience right then, and not stress on what it “means.” What good sex means is that you are able to enjoy a connection with another person, and the physical equipment of the bodies involved, well, so? I wish I could have sex with a woman now and then but I have sex with guys, and I am not willing to lie to a woman (or anyone) to get them to have sex, and virtually all women will stop cold on learning you have sex with men. Does it mean I am less gay that I would like to have sex with women now and then? Does it make a guy less straight if he would like to have sex with a guy now and then? Maybe maybe not, I think it depends on your definitions of gay and straight, and as far as I am concerned I just am over that issue. I do what any real man does and that is I have the sex I want to have. What others think about my sex, well, that is no concern of mine.David
Hey man i know i can relate in the opposite sense, im commonly referred to as gay cause i guess sometimes i can act that way. But gender doesn’t bother me when it comes to sexual activity. Guys sometimes turn me on but I have never tried with a girl so have no idea what one is capable of in the bedroom…Will