I am not an ugly man. I am 59 and still alive. I feel like maybe the area I live in is homophonic. I get treated like I am scum of the earth. I am with my ex wife but want to have a mutual friend of my own. How do I seek a man with same tendency’s. I want to share with him what I have inside of me. There is so much love I have to share, but forgetting how to put myself out there to be noticed by the right man. HELP!

Ron

Even guys can be very superficial and write you off simply because you don’t have the perfect body, the biggest cock, or are above a certain age. I assume you are already aware of all the hookup apps/sites that are out there. Create a profile on one that you like, and make sure you have a nice face pic. Then you wait. You can send a ”like” or a ”woof” of whatever the app calls it, but don’t appear too desperate or needy. If a guy responds, don’t send a dickpic with your first message. Just say hi, and that you like his profile, and go from there. Let him guide the conversation. Always wait for a response before sending your next message. Try to avoid walls of text and sharing of intense feelings from the very get-go. And by all means, if he sends walls of text at you, that might also be a red flag. You don’t treat someone you’ve just met as an emotional toilet. That comes much later with built up trust, appreciation, and friendship, yet you’d be surprised how many guys fall into that trap. You are also in a precarious situation where you are still with your ex wife, and that alone puts a LOT of guys off. I would leave that bit out of any conversation, until you know it’s an ok topic. But above all, remember that meeting guys online is not ideal if you are looking for love and a true connection. Regardless, if there is a man out there for you, you will find each other. Good luck buddy.

Ben

12 thoughts on “HELP!

  1. Look if you stay in your shell life will pass you by,you need to find a hobby like scrabble or doing volunteer work. Just meet people, I was in your shoes I decided to help and give assistance to others . Give me a call 267 694 5834 Paul

  2. I’m 58 and married, soon to be divorced. I met another married man on SilverDaddies. We will have been together 3 years next month and love each other very much. It isn’t easy but finding love and sharing great sex is wonderful.

      1. Thanks, Paul. I’m know I’m not the first closeted, gay married man but it definitely feels that way. I never imagined I could be romantically attracted to another man. Now that’s it’s happened I encourage everyone in a similar circumstance to open themselves up to the possibility. You may have no idea what you are missing.

      2. Yeah Joe,
        I have no idea why I married either, but the 2 children are good Kids.
        Hoped my Dad, would have approved leaving a strong gay life to married life.
        I am back with the 22 year old I left 40 years ago, and there is no one like him and I love that.

        Honestly, have and feel more love for him as well as sometimes pure lust then I have in 40 years trying to please everyone else but me, well
        This Trains Going West.
        I left it and haven’t looked back and am refreshingly happy.

        1. Wow, “have and feel more love for him as well as sometimes pure lust then I have in 40 years trying to please everyone else but me”. That describes my feelings so accurately. At the same time I feel so guilty because I don’t honestly know if ever felt so strongly about my wife.

    1. One of the most beautiful sites I’ve seen a beautiful prick entering is his lover’s anus. This is absolutely perfect and a beautiful beautiful site.

      1. @Ty, thank you. I was an anal virgin when we met. Bottoming terrified me. Love brought us close in so many new ways and now I consider myself a bottom. I found a wonderful man. I hope can find their mate.

    1. Silver Daddies is a start.
      My Uncle likes the sight, others I know too.
      Keep it on the DL, if needed.
      I am in a relationship, with a man I have known and love for 5 years.
      But everyone should be happy, no matter what anyone thinks or likes.
      We have straight and gay friends couples, they are more opened minded. Most in our community don’t like us but that’s their problem.
      Good luck!

  3. Even guys can be very superficial and write you off simply because you are above you don’t have the perfect body, the biggest cock, or are above a certain age.
    I assume you are already aware of all the hookup apps/sites that are out there. Create a profile on one that you like, and make your you have a nice face pic. Then you wait. You can send a ”like” or a ”woof” of whatever the app calls it, but don’t appear too desperate or needy. If a guy responds, don’t send a dickpic with your first message. Just say hi, and that like his profile, and go from there. Let him guide the conversation. Always wait for a response before sending your next message. Try to avoid walls of text and sharing of intense feelings from the very get-go. And by all means, if he sends walls of text at you, that might also be a red flag. You don’t treat someone you’ve just met as an emotional toilet. That comes much later with built up trust, appreciation, and friendship, yet you’d be surprised how many guys fall into that trap.
    You are also in a precarious situation where you are still with your ex wife, and that alone puts a LOT of guys off. I would leave that bit out of any conversation, until you know it’s an ok topic.
    But above all, remember that meeting guys online is not ideal if you are looking for love and a true connection. Regardless, if there is a man out there for you, you will find each other. Good luck buddy.

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