There’s porn and there are gay people. But is there “gay porn?” Or is it simply porn featuring people of the same gender having sex together? If it’s “gay porn,” then virtually no “straight” people would be looking at it. If it’s porn featuring same-gender sex, we’d expect plenty of straight people to be watching it. It’s the latter, of course. Adults find all sorts of fantasies and images sexy—and they don’t necessarily have anything to do with their real-life desires. That is, enjoying scenes of two men having oral sex doesn’t make a man gay. Similarly, enjoying looking at fictional scenes of sexual coercion (or fantasizing being raped) doesn’t mean a person wants that in real life. What arouses us is only a small part of our sexual orientation. If you want to know if someone’s gay, straight, or bisexual, ask them who they have sex with (and who they want to have sex with in real life), not what websites they like to watch.

Marty Klein Ph.D.

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1 thought on “Heterosexual Porn

  1. Absolutely!! It is nice to watch transgender females have sex with men. Or men together. Orgies of free for all lust. Sex is sex! Who cares who you get off with or get off to. Enjoy your exploration and live!!! Fuck what people think!

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