If I had my way I would like to have sex at least 3 times a day. I am 41 years old. My wife is the same age but she only wants to do it every 2 weeks. So never has wanted to experiment in bed. We just do it “normal” style. She wont give head or want to be on topTerry
Seb Cox Replies: Terry, if there are other issues in your relationship you might try going to a marriage counsellor. However if your relationship with your wife is happy in every other regard I would say just leave her be. Some women are not really interested in sex, and there is really very little anyone can do to change that. You would, therefore, need to get your sexual needs meet outside your main relationship. How you do that is entirely up to yourself. Planning is very important. You need to be clear in your own head exactly what sex you want to have. Make a list of rules for yourself. And then Paul, all you have to do is, do it. It might be something that you would only ever need to do once, or it might be something you need to do everyday for the rest of your happy life. But either way, you need to do it, you know what I mean. Do not feel guilty and ever time you have a really good fuck, buy your wife a sex toy. It really doesn’t matter whether she uses them or not. I wish you lots of love, lust and luck on your sacred journey.