I am 21 years old and I am what you might call, bi curious. I have only admitted that I was questioning my own sexuality to one person, and it was someone I didn’t know. This is the second time I am admitting it. A question I really want to ask you guys is this. How do I know if I’m gay. Here are my symptoms:

1) I enjoy anal stimulation from my girlfriend and from myself

2) I jerk off to gay porn, but only bondage or kinky stuff.

3) I have fantasized about being pleased by other males that I know in real life, or males that I dont know..

I think my family and friends might know i’m gay, but I can’t admit it and the fact that they MIGHT know makes me lose my breath…I find it humiliating...I need someone to talk to about this, hopefully someone who has been in the same situation or something close to it please leave a message. Thank you for running this site !

Anon

I had the same stuggles as a young man and had a lot of guilt and shame because of society pressure. I couldn’t stop being with other men once I had been with another man. My true happiness and fulfillment came once I accepted it and embraced my homosexuality. Be true to yourself and not comform to false ideas of heterosexual lifestyle.

Tyler

It sounds to me like you are into guys but you really won’t know for sure until you have sex with one. If having a man’s face and possibly cock up your ass doesn’t make your eyes go back in your head and make you feel as if you’d never had sex before, then you might not be gay! But if it does… BINGO! Then you’re a certified cock sucker. Be proud of it. Seriously. You can’t change it. Believe me, I’ve tried. I got married, had kids, stayed away from gyms and men in general. But no matter what I couldn’t run away from the truth. After 14 years, dick finally drew me in and once I had a taste, that was it. You can’t deny who you are and you SHOULDN’T deny it! Find the truth and you’ll find happiness. Find a gay friend to fuck with and see! 

John

It’s not about gay, straight or bi, it’s about male sexuality. I don’t have gay sex, I have guy sex. Only a guy can fully understand what another guy needs and feels. I enjoy giving that intense pleasure to other guys and them giving it to me. It is an amazing gift I am happy to share. 

Neilian

If you have fantasies about being with other men, that doesn’t mean you’re completely gay. You might be bi, or you might be bi-curious. I am without a doubt bisexual. I way prefer men over women, but I only consider myself bi because I have had sex with girls in the past.

Justin

19 thoughts on “How Do I Know?

  1. I agree with others here I love women but I enjoy cock too love the feeling of being taken and to suck cock I am a cum addict either from the source or second hand from her pussy it’s not so much how he looks but whether his cock is a turn on

  2. Dont ask dont tell dont question yourself
    Just act live love as you please and forget right after … do you think St8 that act as such with women question themselves about ?
    Why should you ?
    ?

  3. Not to change the the subject (although if the young man man only falls in love with and has relationships with women, I’d “classify” him as straight– not that labels really mean anything), but regarding the top photo– a picture says a thousand words, or can create a thousand fantasies.

    1. A lot of guys are bi curious i found quite few in saunas at college that wanted to see what it was like .. an excuse a first step ? I dunno ! It was a nice experience for me and hopefully for ´em too .. u r adult u decide !

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