Peace & Manhugs

So you have a problem with the word ”gay”, but you like to have sex with men? …. normally this is where the accusations of hypocrisy and internalized homophobia, and other vapid comments […]

How Do I Know?

I am 21 years old and I am what you might call, bi curious. I have only admitted that I was questioning my own sexuality to one person, and it was someone I didn’t […]

Men & Trees

When you go out into the woods and you look at trees, you see all these different trees. And some of them are bent, and some of them are straight, and some of […]

bRomance

Young men are becoming more emotional and intimate, allowing them to achieve a new level of closeness . This means they are more likely to share intimate secrets with their bRomance than their […]

Sexual Desires

Most of the reason it took me so long to just enjoy guys is cultural — American culture and its fear of pleasure. But there’s more: I like nothing more than seeing a […]

Me & My Penis

This is my review of photographer Laura Dodsworth’s Me and my penis: 100 men reveal all. It all looks a bit sad to be honest with you. It’s lazy not to have used […]

The HaPenis Buoy

I am a man who considers myself to be essentially 100% str8 but I have slept with lots of men and have recently been seeing a man in a full-blown relationship. When I say […]

Jay’s Philosophy

hello Mr Cox, I think being bisexual can often be quite a lonely journey.  That is the sad, sad, truth. Even though I have a fantastic wife, she can never fully understand me, […]

Morning Woods

Men are supposed to wake up with an erection every morning. Seriously, if you’re in “good health,” your body is hard-wired for “morning wood.” In fact, nocturnal erections—also known as “sleep-related erections” (SREs) […]

The Platonic Blow

The Platonic Blow, (sometimes known as “A Day for a Lay” or “The Gobble Poem“) is an erotic poem by W. H. Auden. Thought to have been written in 1948, the poem gleefully describes […]

proudly bisexual

Hi. I’m a 24 year old bisexual guy from Manchester and sex has always confused me. I’ve been with my girlfriend for 1 year and a half now, but I’ve always been aware of […]

Heteroplatonic

Thanks, your article is a revelation to me. I have long known intuitively sexuality is far more complex than just the straight-gay-bi continuum which is why I have always been unable to define […]

Homoerotic Precum

I have become interested after having the most intense homoerotic dream that left me so hard I could not believe I was capable of it. I now cannot get the dream out of […]

a quiet wank with a bloke

I respect Jay’s point of view in as far as he defines it. As a gay man who never fancies women he clearly has it sorted. Black and white as he says. But […]

Capable of HaPenis?

How you choose to use your HaPenis energy depends on your courage to be honest with yourself and to explore and enjoy yourself. Satisfying yourself sexually is the key that opens the door […]

str8 or gay ?

I distinguish between sexual orientation, romantic orientation, and platonic orientation because many straight guys, for example, have gay sex on the side.  They often say, “It’s only sex.”  To me, they are heteroromantic […]