The Cock Lover I Am

I had a hard time accepting my homosexuality. I married a woman twenty years ago. At the time I thought I was bisexual, although she didn’t know it. But over the past 5 […]

when i’m 64

Dear Seb, One of these days I’m going to come over and see you and thank you in person. it is so good to feel that all my abundant and constant sexuality is […]

If He Only Knew

I’m not a fan of labels. I am attracted to women, but there is something about a hot, muscled up stud with a big cock that really gets me going. I’m 50 and […]

The Art of Cruising

Dr Christopher White, Ph.D., is an expert in sexual and reproductive health with over 25 years of professional teaching experience. He says that the art of gay cruising dates back decades, to the […]

Labels Aren’t Good

So like Sex Cox says labels aren’t good thing, but does sound like even though you have a girlfriend, you rather be with a man. What seems to be holding you back is […]

(aka Celtic Tantra)

The Great Secret of Pink Tantra(aka Celtic Tantra) – It’s not about copying some-one else’s tantra, it’s about creating your own. Only then will you be truly authentic. Pink Tantra focuses on the […]

aka God Tantra

God has created many of us as gay, and all that God creates is beautiful. I would suggest you first come to accept that within yourself. Give yourself time. I would suggest that […]

The Gay Games 2021

A game played by straight lads to see who has more balls. The game is played in several ways. The most simple is the mankiss. One ‘player’ moves in for a sensual kiss […]

The Ancient Celts Invented Gay Tantra

‘Despite the fact that their wives are very beautifal, the Celts have very little to do with them, but instead abandon themselves to a strange passion for other men. They usually sleep on the ground […]

Peace & Light

Gay mens true role in the highest sense is to be peacemakers and light bringers. Some of my ideas and beliefs are from kabbalah. You know that I despise the Kabbalah Centre to […]

Hail Priapus!

Mr. Cox, I was directed to your site by a friend who knew I would be interested in its contents. I founded Toronto’s first Temple of Priapus in 1994. Since then, it has […]

Summer in Dublin

Take me away from the city and lead me to where I can be on my own,I wanted to see it, and now that I have, I want just to be left alone,I’ll […]

BiCurious Divorced

My fantasy is to fully loose my MMF virginity. I am a 41 year old divorced bi curious man interested in taking/being a male lover. I’ve never been in a gay bar but […]

a quiet wank with a bloke

I respect Jay’s point of view in as far as he defines it. As a gay man who never fancies women he clearly has it sorted. Black and white as he says. But […]

Capable of HaPenis?

How you choose to use your HaPenis energy depends on your courage to be honest with yourself and to explore and enjoy yourself. Satisfying yourself sexually is the key that opens the door […]

Fantastic Fantastic!

Do you know that area between your arse and your balls? Good man, your perineum. Place your three middle fingers of your left hand there and start to breathe deeply as your vibrate […]